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20 July 2009 @ 05:02 pm
...and of course I have to write a book about it.

My neighbor went into labor at 4am Sunday. She's a week overdue already and on Saturday morning I agreed to be on call for her this coming week, since there's no summer school teaching work for me this week.

She was trying for a home birth without drugs, which to me is absolute insanity. ;)
Sarcasm aside, a home birth seems like that's just the way it should be done anyway, innit? And the without drugs thing, well that's just cuz you never know what the meds really do to a newborn, so trying to birth without is also a good idea.
Ain't no way I'd ever tho. ;)

Though she was in labor, I was not told I should report for babysitting duty on Sunday, so I went ahead with my plans to do the AIDS Walk.
We had a great turnout and did the walk, and had a great time walking with my hubby [info]anaguma, with [info]artisticskin, [info]damiondead, [info]princessdammitt, [info]nohwhere_man, Anna Mae, Christine, Melanie and Betsy.

[info]mklmyrs was also there but instead of walking, he manned the team table for us along with Amanda. THANK YOU!

Our team raised $2,425 in online donations alone! The total for this year's AIDS Walk was over $3M.

On the way home from the AIDS Walk, my neighbor called to tell me she was still in labor. I told her I'd be over as soon as I could to help out with her toddler son.
I had time to change clothes and that's it. My neighbor's wife told me I could find their son in the park a couple blocks away with another babysitter, so off I went, after having just walked 6 miles for the AIDS Walk. My feet and legs were in pain but I'd promised I'd be there for my neighbors, and besides, their son is adorable. :)

The rest details a day in the life of a parent as experienced by ztepf )

I think that of all the babysitting and nannying and preschool teacher work I've done - having stayed overnight with barely any sleep and having to get up ready to go full steam ahead the next day with a little one - that is surely the closest experience I've had yet to a real day in the life of a parent is like.

And I'm happy that it's not my every day life.
 
 
Current Mood: exhausted
 
 
20 July 2009 @ 04:21 pm

My brother had one of the coolest cats in the world. We called him Freddy Snowpants, because he had furry fat hind legs that looked like he was wearing snowpants when he walked. One of my favorite things to do was stand behind him and make the "zip zip zip" noise, which always resulted in much mirth and laughter.

Jeremy just e-mailed me that Freddy's cancer finally was too much for him, and they had to put him down today.

This picture tells you everything you need to know about him, why I loved him so much, and is the way I'll remember him:

Snow Pants


 
 
http://www.bostonherald.com/news/regional/view.bg?articleid=1186039&srvc=home&position=active

The Boston Herald is the Fox News of Boston-area journalism, for those who don't know. But their story on the Gates arrest did include a delicious, delicious factoid (which the other papers have removed by now):
"Henry Louis Gates Jr., acclaimed Harvard University academic and black history documentarian, has been arrested following a bizarre front-porch tirade about racism police said 'alarmed' passers-by drawn to the uproar outside his Cambridge home.

'This is what happens to black men in America!' the allegedly 'loud and tumultuous' 58-year-old divorcee is accused of having bellowed to a crowd of about seven early Thursday afternoon as Cambridge police Sgt. James Crowley sought to question him about a reported break-in attempt at his Ware Street address.

A witness, 40-year-old Lucia Whalen of Malden, had alerted the cops that a man was 'wedging his shoulder into the front door' at Gates’ house 'as to pry the door open,' police reported.

[snip]

Cambridge police declined to comment on whether racism was a factor in Gates’ arrest.

Their reports on the incident stated Gates’ alleged reaction to their presence 'served no legitimate purpose and caused citizens passing by this location to stop and take notice while appearing surprised and alarmed.'"
[Racism theirs.]

Lucia Whalen works for the Harvard alumni magazine.

Let's recap:
- Tenured Harvard professor tries to get into his own house.
- Woman calls the cops upon seeing a BL**K P*RS*N doing something suspicious, rather than asking her neighbor whether everything is OK.
- Said neighbor also happens to be a fellow Harvard employee.

If this metaphor were any richer, you would need a new liver after digesting it.

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20 July 2009 @ 05:38 pm

she had so many devices, originally uploaded by persephassa.



doing laundry, etc. more pictures on flickr.

 
 
20 July 2009 @ 04:27 pm
The fine folks at O'Reilly sent me reviewer copy of two books on Erlang



I am currently in the process of learning Erlang for a personal project. These books both measures up to the high expectations I have come to expect from Pragmatic Programmers Publishing and from O'Reilly Books.

Erlang is a difficult language to "sell", and is a challenge to learn.

Both books assume you have decently good programming skills, and don't need your hand held too much about the idea of programming, and instead show you how Erlang is different, it's unique and interesting features, and some of "how to think in Erlang".

Both are very good books for learning the language, and gaining basic skill in using it.

Both of the cover pretty much the same territory, in pretty much the same order. You only really would need one of them, but they are both equally good, so I can't recommend one over the other. Either get both, or pick one at random.


I wish there was more on "how to think in Erlang", especially since most programmer's intuitions about multiprocessing and concurrency, born of battle scars with multithreaded programming in C/C++, will be wrong.
 
 
20 July 2009 @ 07:00 pm


l'usufruitière

l'usufruitière

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(merci à marie-france de m'avoir prêté sa main.)




 
 
missingtapes.jpgWhat happened to the original Apollo tapes, variously said to be wiped, lost, or freshly rediscovered? Lisa Katayama interviews NASA flight engineer Dick Nafzger to find out. thecaseagainst.jpgThe case against iPhone in the bedroom: three rules to live (and swipe) by. famousphoto.jpgThe most famous photo from the Apollo Moon landing has a story of its own. And don't miss Steven Leckart's interview with engineer, rapper and heart-breaking realist Buzz Aldrin.

 
 
I love my job. Seriously.
While the work isn't all that exciting (testing cellphone software), the people are AWESOME. The paid benefits and vacation days are nice too ;)
Our company is pretty small, so everyone knows each other.
Most of our company is made up of engineers that immigrated to the US. Maybe it's a cultural thing.
Everyone at the company si really nice and respectful with great work ethics.

We never had to fire anyone for misconducts, but had layoffs due to the economy. Our bosses hated laying off those workers, but the company wasn't doing so well. :(
Fortunately we are trucking through this slow period and hoping things will pick up in the fall (which it should).

So Anyways, my coworker J and I were talking about  our respective weekends and her kid's 1st bday. (Background info on J, She has a 1 year old with her boyfriend. Her bf takes care of the baby during the day while J is at work. She's a model PNB and it shows because her baby is such a good kid. I've met her baby a couple times and she's the happiest, friendliest kid ever. J is also a great engineer which shows, since she's always a project leader for our contracts.). Then the convo turned to our insurance benefits. She chose PPO and I had HMO. She was asking about my copay rates and deductible costs. I mentioned that I had no deductible and my copay was $15 for a general visit. I told her how I had gotten my essure for only $15 plus the cost of meds:
Conversation in which I find out J is made of AWESOME!!!! )

J is such an awesome person. I had reservations about her finding out, because I thought she might freak out. She used to send me emails about the latest stories on kids being abused, abducted or murdered bytheir parents.  J wins at life and she and her kid(s) give me hope for the future.

I hope this brightened your day!! It sure did brighten mine! :D

xposted

 
 
Current Mood: happy
 
 
20 July 2009 @ 04:39 pm

woman, originally uploaded by CoraReed.

Another rework. I like the glowing sort of warm effect.

Things are getting interesting.

 
 
20 July 2009 @ 02:44 pm
Had a great talk to day by Joe Rospars of Blue State Digital about the lessons of the Obama campaign. He ran the new media elements (captured below by Edelman)



The principles of Transparency, Authenticity, Relationship building and engagement could be applied across any project or business.

They also produced this great video for the last week of the campaign when they feared supporters were too complacent and sure of winning to turn out:


 
 
20 July 2009 @ 06:00 pm

Dumb woman looking at Chinese takeout menu: Chicken and rice soup. What's in it?
Confused woman behind counter: Chicken and rice.
Dumb woman: In a soup?
Confused woman: Yeeaah. That's why it's called "chicken and rice soup."
Dumb woman: Okay, I'll have that.

--E 23rd St b/w Park Ave & Madison Ave

Overheard by: Janine


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20 July 2009 @ 03:12 pm

what is this, originally uploaded by hep.

first please enjoy this jpg of a kitten and chick.

i find it is best to do these sort of life updates in phonecam jpgs lately because i do not seem to pull out my actual camera anymore other than to take pictures of my assorted animals. but here is what we have been up to lately as in this weekend.




saturday zane and i rode our bikes around town because it was the town wide garage sale. we scored tons of awesome items including a new lens sleeve and a gorillapod. sunday morning we all got up early and zane, evan, roger, yuriy, and i headed downtown for brunch (brenda's which is awesome. roger has good taste in food) before hitting up petco so zane could get a new hamster.




then yuriy and i hopped on caltrain up to the city. Rode from 22nd St Caltrain to the Mission where we met up with jason, pavla, pascal, ian, and tracy and then rode to Chrissy Field and Ft. Point. After picnicking up there we rode back across the city to Dolores Park for some prime hipsterspotting. After that we rode to Cancun, then back to 22nd St Station. Roger was nice enough to pick us up from the train and give us a ride up the hill because i do not think i could even have walked it, my legs were so tired.




today i did not think i would be able to ride, but yuriy is wfh so we decided to ride around town and grab lunch. i was able to ride down to the taqueria and then halfway to the quarry up to the secret skatepark. on the way home however i saw my dad on his way to his place and he was nice enough to give me a ride up the hill so i wouldn't have to push my bike the entire way. someday maybe i will be able to ride up the mountain but i doubt it.




hopefully i can keep up riding my bike at least 1x a day. riding with yuriy to the train and then back on my own is what i do most days which is roughly 5miles with 1 tiny hill and 1 insanitymountain that i need to walk of shame up at the end. working on it tho. all of the various animals are well, kitten continues to be adorable, and children are evolving at acceptable rates. how are all of you epalz? hope your irls are as fun as mine is! <3

 
 
Current Location: heptown
Current Music: R U Still Down- (Remeber Me) - 2Pac
 
 
20 July 2009 @ 02:57 pm
And one year later, I'm (still) alive ---opinionated and bitchy as ever. Rock the fuck on life!

Speaking of fuck,  I'd like to say a few things:

Fuck MEDICAL BILLS. You can't get blood from a turnip!

Fuck my ex for never calling me after the accident (jealous girlfriends are NOT an excuse) grow balls borrow mine, whatever.

Fuck post-accident pain a year later (this is mostly for David, Maile and Kristin)

Fuck YEAH we're still alive,
Fuck YEAH I've been hyper productive the last year
Fuck YEAH I have more and better friends than ever
Fuck YEAH I sound... like a kid in this post? Well guess what--- I'm happy like one. Today is a great day.


No more of this ever please: And if you're in a band, please please PLEASE install a barrier between you and your gear.




 
 
20 July 2009 @ 03:05 pm

Better Vision, With an Implanted Telescope

In a brief outpatient procedure, a corneal specialist implants the mini-telescope in one eye in place of its natural lens. The telescope magnifies images on the retina, extending them so they fall on healthy cells outside the damaged macula, said Allen W. Hill, chief executive of VisionCare Ophthalmic Technologies in Saratoga, Calif., the implant's maker.

The telescope is implanted in one eye for jobs like reading and facial recognition. The other eye, unaltered, is used for peripheral vision during other activities like walking.


 
 
Current Music: My Life with the Thrill Kill Kult -- Scene One, Seen 'Em All
 
 
20 July 2009 @ 11:04 pm
I have created a new group for the posting of event flyers for gigs and conventions etc.

If you have an event post it up here.

http://community.livejournal.com/steampunkflyer/
 
 
20 July 2009 @ 05:47 pm
TACKY!


IT IS A SET UP!


THEY ARE LYING TO YOU!


SHE ISN'T WORTH IT!


NO. IT LOOKS _BAD_!


DON'T DO IT!


*breath*

Okay. Now THAT is out of my system.
 
 

Girl: He had Tetris.
Guy: Tetris?
Girl: You know, when you twitch involuntarily.
Guy: Oh, you mean Tourette's syndrome!

--6 Train


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20 July 2009 @ 02:15 pm
Guestblogger Marina Gorbis is executive director at Institute for the Future.

Thank you so much for allowing me to engage you in a conversation. Our signature process at the Institute for the Future is what we call "Foresight to Insight to Action." We don't predict the future, because nobody can do that. Rather, we create provocative but realistic visions of the future. We use those forecasts to engage people in conversations about what this particular future might mean to them and to their organizations, what is important, what they need to pay attention to, what challenges they might be facing. Those are the insights that they can then use to develop action steps to achieve a desirable future.

Your generous comments were full of insights that I found really interesting and helpful. Here is what I learned from you in response to posting Socialstructing, Dead Souls on Social Media, Socialstructing: Statement of Social Currency, and Dushechka:

• Socialstructing -- organizing around social relations and not against them -- has the potential to humanize our economy. At the same time, substituting social capital for money as the new currency can bring in new challenges and new social divisions. We can end up with whole new classes of rich and poor based on new social capital metrics.

• Social networks can be exclusionary (secret societies, clubs, cliques), again something to watch for.

• The drive for accumulation may be as harmful with regard to social capital as it is with regard to money. People may engage in all kinds of unsavory practices to build up social capital (just as they do with financial capital).

• Any single metric of a person's reputation is bound to create a crooked mirror of someone's worth. Humans are too complex to be reduced to one measurable metric. What isn't the metric measuring? What perverse incentives for accumulation it is creating?

• Finally, and most importantly, as my son leaves for college, I need to watch out lest I develop new passions much less savory than bluegrass and baseball (thank you, @samuraizenu).

I want to leave you with one of my favorite short clips from an exercise IFTF did at the 2008 Maker Faire Bay Area. As visitors passed our booth, we asked them to record 30 second videos outlining their visions of the future. Great wisdom from the mouth of the babe, completely spontaneously.

Make a Better Future!





 
 
20 July 2009 @ 02:16 pm
Now, this is nice and insane. So, apparently HSBC has "bought" the normally-public Madison Square Park in New York for today, and to make sure everyone knows it, by just setting foot in the park today is the equivalent of clicking the "I agree" box on something you'd probably never agree to. This Awl article has details. jdt_park.jpg And what exactly is HSBC advertising? HSBC seems like one of those companies you end up doing business with because you have to-- does anyone seek out HSBC products? How would one even try to be excited about them?

I did a parody of these agreements for Carrie's Illegal Art exhibit; it looks like reality's hell bent on catching up. I'm sure in a couple of years, after Mountain Dew owns the now fluorescent-yellow moon, we'll be used to these kinds of things popping up everywhere.

Jason Torchinsky is a guest blogger on Boing Boing. Jason has a book out now, Ad Nauseam: A Survivor's Guide to American Consumer Culture, that he hopes you'll want to buy. He lives in Los Angeles, where he is a tinkerer and artist, started a webcasting company, and writes for the Onion News Network. He lives with a common-law wife, five animals, too many old cars, and a shed full of crap.